MUST READ INTERVIEW SECTION WITH FAGBAMILA: SPEAKING ON SOCIAL MEDIA AND RELATIONSHIP

PROGRAM ANCHORED BY: ADEDARA ADESOLA

GUEST NAME: FAGBAMILA OMOLOLA

PROGRAM TITLE: INTERVIEW SECTION

PROGRAM LOCATION: MY LOVE LIFE AND I WHATSAPP PLATFORM

TIME: 9-10PM EVERY WEDNESDAY'S

 
                   PROGRAM IN FULL

Shollyworld: Good evening my people. As the Lord liveth. I shall live to see the light of many wednesday's in good health and in wealth and you all the members of my love life and I. Amen. It's I Adesola Adedara Oluwafemi Victor, popularly known as Shollyworld. I'm here again on the show INTERVIEW SECTION. But my partner is not here with me again tonight... Sunshine Olamide. She is a little bit ill she will be here next week by the grace of God. Amen. but here I'm, with my very pretty and amiable guest. My guest please introduce yourself to the platform.

Lolly: My name's are Fagbamila Omolola AKA Lolly.

Shollyworld: More blessing my guest. I believe so much that my people are also ready with us  tonight, waiting to gain something's from you Lolly. So our tonight topic is, MY RELATIONSHIP AND SOCIAL MEDIA.

Lolly: yes!!!

Shollyworld: Lets move straight into our first question tonight. WHAT DID YOU UNDERSTAND BY THE WORD SOCIAL MEDIA?

Lolly: Social media refers to the websites or Internet and applications that enables users to share content or participation in social networking that is, connecting   us with friends, family, classmates, customers and clients.

Shollyworld: Thank you. So our next question is. IF THIS COULD BE SOCIAL MEDIA, WHAT THEN DID WE MEAN BY RELATIONSHIP?

Lolly: Relationship is the way two or more people or things are connected. It could be by blood or marriage. It is the way two or more people or group of people regard and behave towards each other.

Shollyworld: thanks. So how can you relate this two words together. IN WHAT WAY DID YOU SEE SOCIAL MEDIA RELATING TO THE WORD RELATIONSHIP?

Lolly: Relationship has to do with the connection between people, same way social media connects people. They both deal with human beings.

Shollyworld: WHAT ARE THE LITTLE ADVANTAGES AND DISADVANTAGES OF SOCIAL MEDIA IN RELATIONSHIP NOWADAYS?

Lolly: The effects of social media on relationships cannot be overemphasised especially the negative effects.... Social medias has help to increased connections and love strength in relationship cos it has help greatly in effective communication especially in distance relationships.....thank God for Skype, IMO, Snap chat, Facebook, Instagram.....etc.... But the negative impacts are more so let's go straight to that.

1...IN OUR RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD...:People no longer have time to pray, study the bible,or meditate on the word of God not even to observe their quiet time. The first thing they do as soon as the wake up is to check the messages they have received on their social medias,reply back and they soon forget to thank God for the day as they soon get carried away.

2....IN OUR ROMATIC OR RELATIONSHIPS LIFE... Here, it has done more harm than good.  Its on this social medias you see girls that show off their boobs ,butts, curves and body saying they are hot and slay queen or mama, they tempt guys,they start to send them friend requests and follow them...its then they start to know their girlfriend, fiance or Wife isn't beautiful again..they break their heart and make them go through emotional trauma which is very bad Again, Ladies soon get carried away by what they see guys display on social media.. The call themselves world famous,drive expensive cars..live flamboyant life..the lady then suddenly starts to fall in love with the guy so as soon as he tell her he loves her she will just say yes immediately and forget her boyfriend cos the guy is wealthy. meanwhile the wealth majority of them have isn't legit and clean..some even end up using them for rituals..they probably wouldn't have fallen into the trap if not for social media.

3...Furthermore, one can express your state of mind,share pictures,feelings..etc..this open door to you getting attention from people really sincere intentions are not but they want to get to you through what you have shared on the social media. People who sincerely do not have good intention but just want to make use of your present situation to get what the want from you. For instance...a girl that posted my boyfriend just broke up with me on Facebook will start to get care from guys meanwhile its not that they really care but they've seen the opportunity to get the girl again, But the good part is that it has help to strengthen love relationship especially in the sense that communication is now easy through chat and a good relationship needs effective communication.... especially distance relationship where we can do video calls, share pictures..etc on IMO, Skype, Facebook, WhatsApp etc..... relationship life just got interesting and sweet with social media too.

Shollyworld: WHAT CAN YOU SAY ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP OF THE PAST? DAYS WHEN THERE'S IS NO SOCIAL MEDIA. CAN YOU COMPARE THE DIFFERENCE TO NOWADAYS RELATIONSHIP.... DOES IT HAS ANY GOOD OR BAD SIDE EFFECT ?

Lolly: Hmmmm...when there was no social media then,people love,valued and cherish each other and themselves then now...back then, no Phone to even take pictures, talk of uploading it. So if you're beautiful.. Good for you. If you are ugly good for you too... There's no social media to show case the beauty. Compared to nowadays Again, there's no much case of broken hearts, rape or being used by guys back then. Cause no social media, no fake life.. most people were really and contented with what they have back then unlike now. There was no slay queen or mama that would show half naked pictures to the world.

Shollyworld: Typical truth. SO IN ONE WORD OR JUST SIMPLY SIMPLE YES OR NO. DID YOU THINK SOCIAL MEDIA DOES OUR GENERATION RELATIONSHIP GOOD?

Lolly: It has done my relationship no harm, It is doing my relationship good.. Cause am always aware of what I am to post and not to post,what's meant to be private about my relationship

Shollyworld: Alright. I'm only beginning to get some point out of your answers what did you mean by what to post or not to post please explain more?.

Lolly: Well on this....I don't post the pictures of my boyfriend like everyday does and it doesn't mean our love is not hot and even if I post it, I would say my friend. I know girls that have posted pictures of several guys as their boo at different times.. what do you think people are thinking about them, what impression are they giving people?

Shollyworld: you are right, relationship sometimes need little privacy. So finally. Lolly the last question is, TELL US IF YOU HAVE EXPERIENCE ANY DRAMA OF SOCIAL MEDIA...IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP.....PLEASE TELL US YOUR LITTLE GOOD OR BAD EXPERIENCE ABOUT SOCIAL MEDIA OVER YOUR RELATIONSHIP

Lolly: No experience so far. Thanks!

Sollyworld: So far pencil ✏ will always be writing, I shall not die and you also shall not die. Thank God for the success of tonight show.....thanks Lolly for answering our call and thanks to all my good fans and followers if there is no you, there is no me. I remain your humble boy "World." see you again same time, same place next week....May the good Lord keep on blessing you all. Amen!!!

 BYE FOR NOW. 

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