QUALITIES OF AN IDEAL HUSBAND

WHEN HE TRULY CARES

Many women spend their lives looking for a good husband, even  parents won't sleep peaceful until they feel that their daughter is with a good man.

BE PLEASANT

No body likes an arrogant man. Be pleasant to everyone around you including your wife, friends and family. Be warm, kind, positive, understanding and friendly.

It's often said that what we give is what we get back. Try to arrive home cheerful and light hearted as you can, even if you had a bad day at the office or are physically exhausted after driving through traffic. Just because your wife doesn't go out to work does not mean that her work is less strenuous. She might have been struggling with children and house chores all day.

RESPECT THE VOWS

Faithfulness and loyalty are prime qualities a wife wants in her man. Have a sense of honor and duty. Remember that when you got married you took vows. The honorable thing is to fulfill your duty to your wife that you took upon your self the day you got married. It is the duty of a man to provide for his family. never expect your wife to contribute to the smooth operation of the household. You have a family to think about and their needs must always come before your own. Never assume that the money you earn is yours to do with as you like.

BE RELIABLE RESPONSIBLE & SUPPORTIVE

Every woman wants her partner to be reliable and be there for her when she needs him. Support your wife in all stages of life, provide reassurance when she is feeling down. Don't belittle her or hurt her ego. If she is a working woman please understand her work pressure and problems. Be proud of her accomplishment and do not forget to compliment her. Be available for her when she needs a shoulder to cry on or when she needs support from you. Let her know that you care for her. When you're not near her at least make a phone call, drop a voice note for her, even if you talk to her for a minute or two. Try to do things together when you come back after work or during the weekend. Help her in what ever way possible she will appreciate it even if you are not much of a help. Be a friend to her, when you don't agree with her views, respectfully let her know that you don't agree and give good reasons.

ADAPTABILITY & SENSITIVITY

As years pass by you'll see that glowing woman you fall in love with years ago doesn't look the same or behave the same manner. She may be tied up with pressure of home. Like the needs of children, financial responsibilities etc. Allow her time to relax by taking some weight off her shoulder or take some time out, spend time with her by relaxing together. Be sensitive to the needs of your wife and try your best to meet them. Do not let your feelings toward life affect your feelings towards your wife. An ideal man needs to be sensitive to the requirements of his partner. Treat her as equal, understand when she needs to stay late at work. Help with house chores.

SHOW RESPECT

If you expect respect from others, you need to treat others with respect too. Respect can be reflected in the way you talk and behave. Always speak in loving manners and refrain from speaking harshly. A good husband never chooses to belittle, strike, humiliate or otherwise harm his wife in private or in public. It is better to watch what you say and to think your thought through before speaking, as it is not possible to take your words back once they are spoken. Treat her with respect in front of others and at home. Do not look as other ladies in front of her. Take her opinion into consideration when making important decision for the family. If you're bringing your buddies home, let her know in advance.

JUDGMENT & EMOTIONAL BAGGAGE

Many of us have emotional baggage. But don't bring that emotional baggage in to your marriage. Many men praise their previous wives, girlfriends, or mother in front of their wives, avoid judging every action or opinion your wife has and understand that she is different from you. Her experience and liking may be different from yours too. Making her feel that she does not measure up will only ruin your marriage.

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