WHAT I NEED TO KNOW ABOUT MY RELATIONSHIP OR MY DATE

The word that is call  DATING  has very large and wide meanings, Which many people doing it don't really understand it. All they Knew was that I'm just dating someone and I commonly show love and affection to him or her. Well lets talk about dating IN FULL.

First thing I know you will like to ask me is.... 

Is dating a normal thing to do for everyone? 

It is very well answered as "YES" but everything in life is divided into two ways. They have advantages so also they have some disadvantages, or let say positive side or some negative side effect. So Let me quickly Run through the,

ADVANTAGE and DISADVANTAGE.


ADVANTAGE 

1, Relationship, Its will allow you understand how to handle family issues or family matters, i'e ''you will learn from any mistake you made in a Relationship."

2, It's teaching you how to give out and show some caring and love to one another, and to whom you loved or to your friends as well.

3, And its speed up your mind towards settle down your own family at the dew time. "So you will have good plan to marry fast"

4, Its save you from loneliness sometimes, i'e if you have someone to share your problems with you may not feel too concern or depressed about it.

5, when you're in Relationship Feeling Happy will be part of you, If you're fortunate to find yourself with a Guy or Lady who knows how to make people smile. Note. Relationship is all about who can make you always smile because Life itself  needs a smile to overcome temperament.

6, Its boost your experience and level of maturity and understanding. ''you will have more knowledge and the wisdom on how to attent to cases concerning family or family affairs.

DISADVANTAGES

 1, Relationship, it's sometimes waste time if we later lose it but in it we have learn a lot of lessions  " so Relationship is never a waste,''

2, Its may spend guys a lots of money, but not all Relationship allow much of spending but at list you spend a little on calls and little surprise gift even when she didn't demand for it, and some present on Birthday's and new years etc, by doing all this, its always make Ladies Happy and your Relationship will not be too boring but go stronger.

3, It cause heartbreak if love disappoint.

TWO TYPES OF DATING OR TYPES OF RELATIONSHIP

Serious Relationship and not serious Relationship

But "NOTE" been in a relationship is not against any Religion. Been it Christians or you're a Muslims, even if yours is Traditional Religion.


You may wish to ask dis question too

WHEN CAN I START DATING ?  

Dating has no specific age or time, but lets assume when a Lady start to mature, 14 years and above and a guy should range 15 years and above. But this 21th century, things are changing compare to the olden days. but try to do things accordingly, do it in such a way that will not affect you in anyway round. Make sure you plan for everything at a time, i'e when you plan for Education also plan for marriage as well so that one will not delay. "If you drop one for one it might cause you some delay," anyway quote me right, this are all probability. You might not be delay if you didn't follow this steps above, because in this life we have different luck and there is destiny for every creature on Earth, so sometimes you need to also follow your mind the way its will direct you.

WHAT CONDITION SHOULD I LOOK INTO BEFORE DATING ANYONE? 

Just make sure she is a Lady or a Guy that has good plan and focus and dreams towards achieving a great future. Because Sometimes money is not everything in life don't go for Money and don't go for look all this can deceive. When you both have focus and plan money will workout if really you believe. Believing in what you are doing is also important, if you are dating someone and your minds is not with him, you can never achieve anything together. God can only bless you if your two minds have become one. Don't take any relationship for a joke or for granted, you never can tell who your Husband or Wife will be no one knows tomorrow and there's always a reason everyone that comes your way finds you, It's either to teach you a lesson or to bring you the blessing. dating can end up as noting but treat everyone like a Gold Bag or a Pot of Gold, do to them as if you have at the moment your Husband or Wife to be.

"NOTE" this too, not all relationship can lead to marriage but at list they will make you learn one or two things about life. The more your number of years in dating or relationship the higher your experiences is in marital life. Quote me right once again not all relationship can workout...

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