My love life and I interview team, our visit to the family of Mrs Falana Motunrayo Florence sharing her marital experience with our team: it is too motivating and educating. It's a must read for all singles and married

One happy family of Mr/Mrs Falana 

"Sharing is just one of the best way to solve problems in relationships as well as life and career issues," so MY LOVE LIFE AND I as a nongovernmental Origination as always been in place to motivate people towards achieving quality and good relationships as well as marriages... We set up this team over a year ago. Team leaded by ADEDARA ADESOLA OLUWAFEMI VICTOR also known as SHOLLYWORLD. He set up the "interview team" with the Aims and objectives to achieve quality and good relationships as well as marriage for all the Readers of the blog and in all our media platforms. 

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INTERVIEW SECTION

Interview team: Good afternoon. Please can we know your full name? 

Guest: Mrs Falana Motunrayo Florence

Interview team: Your nationality and state of origin? 

Guest: I'm from Ilawe Ekiti, Ekiti State Nigeria

Interview team: we are sorry to ask this question but we want to be sure. Mrs Falana Motunrayo Florence are you married? 

Guest: I'm legally married with a beautiful daughter

Interview team: Wow! May the good Lord bless your happy family Amen!!!.... Now let's bring you back to the memories of those days you're still dating. 

What did you really like about your husband or what did you first admires in him? 

Guest: Thank you for that question. That seems so funny at first. Well, I knew his elder brother, Cos myself and his elder brother bear the same name. So I sent my husband friend request on facebook knowing that he's that man's brother.

So to be sincere, I really hate him while on facebook cos if you hi him he won't reply back and the picture he used then was not attractive at all, so for that I don't like him.

Later on, l was so sick, I went to Ilawe Ekiti. From Ado Ekiti for treatment. So when I was going back to Ado I branched in his brother's office in ILAWE Ekiti. So he told me one of his brother school's in UNAD ( University of Ado Ekiti then, which is now Ekiti state University "EKSU" ) while I was looking for admission in the same school so I was in Ado to write my POST UTME. His brother gave me his number in case I need any help, So when I got to Ado that day I called the number around 6pm the phone was ringing but no answered. So he later called me back and the first thing he said after hello and introduction was "Why did you call me at that particular time, who are you?" I was so scared of that question cos I don't know what he meant by that.

So he said can I see you now?

So I was staying with my male friends in their hostel cos I don't really know anyone there. Most of my friends are male, So I was standing in front of where we're Supposed to meet.

So to be sincere, mere looking at him from afar I fell in love with him, "So gentle, young looking guy, he walks like Hero!"

So when we finally meet, we exchange pleasantries and he asked the same question again, "why did you call me at that particular time?" I said nothing I just picked up my phone and called there is nothing really. While on facebook we've been friends for good 2 years or so.

So he asked me if I can follow him to a friend's place and I said no problem. So when we got there he told the guy "this is the person I'm talking about." again I got scared!. So later that day we didn't talk much, He went home and I went to my Dad's friend's House in Ado Ekiti.

Next day he called and said "Hello dear" "How are you doing and how is your health?" I replied him and he said he wanted to invite me to his church fellowship in which they are doing fasting and prayer for seven days so I told him I'm not around and I can't fast cos I'm on drugs but I will pray and that's how we started.

"One week later he asked me out and I said YES!!!"

Things that attracted me to him are,  he's gentle, caring, loving, well dressed, well composed, well mannered, interesting to be with, intelligent, God fearing, he doesn't drink or smoke nor Womanize etc. He proposed me and I said yes to him in August 18, 2012.

Interview team: we will like to ask you more questions..... You know that there is nothing sweet that will not also have its bitter side or there is nothing good that will not have one side bad.... So what are your bitter experience in the relationship before it becomes marriage and what challenges are you facing in the marriage now? 

Guest: I really thank God, We've had our ups and downs. In which part of it I lost my first child but I thank God now that I'm a mother again. Well, we're two different people from different backgrounds, so some times what he likes, that I don't do or that I don't like. I do get him angry and sometimes he get angry with me too. Sometimes the woman in me will not want me to say sorry even when his wrong or when I'm wrong, Cos I believe since he's the one that is wrong let him tell me sorry. So by doing that we're creating space for the devil to enter. Which I've learnt from my mistakes and said to my self I will never keep a secret from him and he too promise the same,  so we promised to always talk about the issues on ground immediately and settled it to stop prolonging little issues. Cos before I enjoyed keeping malice, which I find to be the easiest, simplest things that distracts and destroy homes.

Interview team: So the next question is..... What has your marriage thought you about life?

Guest:  "I've gained a lot"

1. First I'm a mother.

2. I've gained to be a good and better person with the help of God and my Treasure.

3. There are some things I can't do before example is what I'm doing now but with my Treasure been supportive i can do them.

I don't believe I can be like this before cos I'm someone that is very scared of doing something but he explained some things to me and corrected me with love and even now I'm always feeling like doing more, cos I have someone that got my back, I have a friendly person as my husband. He correct me with love so that makes me want to do more under his leads, cos he always leads me in a right way.

Interview team: What name did you like calling your husband most times when you are at home? And did you believe calling husband or spouse pet names can really enhance good relationship or good marriage?

Guest: "Yes I believe that." I do call him different names it depends on my mood, But mostly, My Treasure, my Hero, Olami, Waf bae, meaning waf is full name and bae before anyone else.... I do call him with some Korean names too. Mostly my Treasure. Calling pet names It really enhances good relationships and good homes too. When a woman sit down and think of one lovely, sweet, and romantic name to call her man. It will surely impressed the man.

Men loves it when you call them in a special way, that is only you that knows the meaning, It enhances the love between you too,

Interview team: Did you have a day you can never forget in your Relationship or in Marriage?  If so what really happens that day that you think you can never forget in life? 

Guest: "A lot of unforgettable memories" Like the day I was in labor of my first child for one week, "the way my Treasure was going up and down and the look on his face" I was to teach some puppies on how to make liquid soap, Air freshener, bleach etc in their school, He was looking at me with the way i was managing myself, It got to a point and he couldn't take it anymore so he asked me to sit down while he Continue with the teaching.

Around the time I want to give birth there was this very heavy rain, He had to go into the rain to get me food. He came back and I felt sorry for him cos he was completely wet, no bike so he had to walk to the far place to get the food.



Few hours to the time I want to give birth he was there standing but because of the way he was doing, feeling the pains and was like ah,  easy o, sorry dear etc the nurse asked him to leave cos obviously he can't stand to see me going through that pain. He rushed out when he heard a little cry of the baby, and he was holding my hand and kissed my forehead and said hope you're OK?

Hope you're OK for me? "like he used to say"

I just can't forget that day, and before I had this my princess now each time I remember the way she left me and cry then I just remember this and console my self.

Interview team: What is your Advise for the young and single Ladies and guys outside there or those that are new in relationships or marriage?

Guest:
1. My advice to them is, firstly please before you go deep into a relationship always know your genotype, it's very very important for the future of your relationship as well as marriage.

2. Then secondly pray very well about the person, tell your parents about the person let them too pray about it, to know if you two have a future together, what he or she has now can fade away but who he or she is, the person in he or she will remain for ever.

3. Don't marry out of pity or thinking you can change the person sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't work out.

Interview team: Family Is not about been equal.... It's not about been rich or poor.... It's all about perfect understanding and love we share. We really appreciate you more than you think..... For answering our call, My love life and I team will pay your family a visit. Will you receive us?

Guest: you are free anytime you wish to pay us visit......

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