My love life and I, interview team. Our visit to a relationship expert, Olaniyan Immanuel Imoledayo Ishola kolade. The founder of LOVE WORLD relationship counseling, motivational and inspirational group: a must read for all

Like we always says. "Sharing is just one of the best way to solve problems in relationships as well as life and career issues," so MY LOVE LIFE AND I as a nongovernmental Origination as always been in place to motivate people towards achieving quality and good relationships as well as marriages... We set up this team over a year ago. Team leaded by ADEDARA ADESOLA OLUWAFEMI VICTOR also known as SHOLLYWORLD. He set up the "interview team" with the Aims and objectives to achieve quality and good relationships as well as marriage for all the Readers of the blog and in all our media platforms. 

He has really achieved over 75% of is Aims and objectives doing this. If you love to Share your experience with our team call or whatsapp Shollyworld with this number +2347030582692. Comment your numbers below this post or send us email-mylovelifeandi@gmail.com we answer all queries and comments immediately.

INTERVIEW SECTION

interview team: Good afternoon sir your name please?

Guest: My full name is Olaniyan Immanuel Imoledayo Ishola kolade.

Interview team: thanks sir where are you from? 

Guest: I am from Oke-Imesi Ekiti, Ekiti state Nigeria. 

Interview team: that is good. Are you single single sir or in a relationship? 

Guest: I'm single and also in a relationship. Well let explain what it means to be single and as well dating

Interview team: go on sir, we are listening. 

Gueat: According to English dictionary, it defines relationship as....... " Relationship is the way in which two or more people, groups, countries, etc. talk, behave, and deal with each other:  the way in which two or more people or things are connected" that is just relationship... So I am bold to say I'm into in a relationship. 

 Also relationship is also a romantic or sexual friendship between two people.." so I am single in case like this. 

Interview team: Now lets take a look at your past and experienced relationships. Did you hav any ex girlfriend or girlfriends?

Guest: yea! I have, but just one. So Anchors, let me start by telling you why I had just one ex girlfriend at my age which some might find hard to believe. 

Interview team: Sir go on!

Guest: Right from my young Age, my dad was a strict man. We don't go out.. I lived with my grandma...  so I was so disciplined right from my childhood because of my dad strictness.. so I don't mingle with opposite sex like that.. wen I got admission to unilorin...  I purposed in my heart that I won't have a single girlfriend and sincerely I saw a lot of pretty ladies and a lot of temptation but I tell you the truth of my heart I had no girl throughout my higher institution. So I plan that whoever I date must be the one I will marry. 

I finished school and served in kebbi state.. I met my ex in kebbi state... she was in her 300 level.. I loved her with my whole heart 100%.. people were so surprised that I told them I hv a fiance.. they thought I wanted to become a Pope or Father.. but I told them it's for real.. I was so proud of her... shes pretty and a good lady.

We were together for 3 years.. and we both know each other family and very close. We do go to our family occasion together but when we were about to start planning for introduction.. I noticed a change in her attitude towards me... I had to travel to her place... but I noticed things have changed... later she opened up to me that she want us to just be friends... that the love I have for her is too much and she doesn't have I bit of the love I have for her to me... that her love to me is not strong enough for marriage... I ask her if she have seen someone else... she said No... she just want to understand her heart... that her heart doesn't love me... I wept for many days, say insultive words because I was so angry and frustrated and see the whole thing as a wasted effort... it was like heaven is falling... a lot of people talk with me to get over it... but it was hard then.. but today.. am over it. It's gone.

What have learn from her was that... I didn't love myself enough... I love her more than myself.. so the experience push me back to myself and made me realise that you can't love anyone perfectly without first loving yourself.

That's why presently am enjoying my singleness because it's a perfect time to love myself and enjoy myself. 

Interview team: Sir let's compare... Compare your been single to back then you are into a relationship.... What did you think you are losing now but it was your gain then? what did you think you are gaining then that you are losing now?.... Please compare

Guest: What I was losing then and gaining now is complete freedom... self love, confidence, no obligation, no demand... wow it's so freeing to be single. So so free.. no one to question me who is on my dp... where I am... who did I talk to last.. wow so so free... that's why since then I call myself a FreeMan

What I was gaining then.. is intimate communication, we share knowledge together, we had sex together, we play and go out... we do have fun... yeah I miss those stuffs... but am used to my lifestyle presently and am enjoying it.

Interview team: What are your advice to the ladies and single guys out there... give them a piece of advice please. 

My advise to single ladies and guys.. is Plz enjoy your singleness. Even if you are in a relationship, maintain your singleness. When someone tells you " I love you".. find out what type of love is it... there are different types of love.. we have sexual love, playful love, familier/family love... charity love and so on... don't go and mistake playful love for reasonable love... first have a self love/ Philautia is self-love, which can be healthy or unhealthy. .

Healthy self-love is akin to self-esteem, which is our cognitive and, above all, emotional appraisal of our own worth. More than that, it is the matrix through which we think, feel, and act, and reflects and determines our relation to ourselves, to others, and to the world.

Interview team: Let us ask this question about your career and dreams.... There is this popular group on whatsapp and Facebook... LOVE WORLD can you briefly tell us the reason for creating the group and what has been your achievement in the group so far?

Guest: My advice, I am man running with a vision. Since 17 years have been counselling people and teaching youths  how to maximise their life...the group started as GRACE Zone.. then it was a platform where we discuss Bible.. and it got to a time we had a wider view to include other religion... we got the name " Love world from the Bible " JOHN 3: 16".. for GOD so LOVE the WORLD".. so we created the loveworld group chat with the vision of upholding oneness regardless of religion views, political views, culture, statutes, skin colour, age, and major on our common ground not on our differences... how we can live together in love and unity... I believe this is what the world needs... oneness is the message... equality and Love.

Achievement : we have some members who have met in this forum and are in a solid flourishing relationship... we have testimonies of people being enlightened... we have people who see the group as a place where they catch fun regardless of the sadness they are passing thru... we have had two great get together... at elegushi beach and the other one at palace hotel in lagos... we have members who are getting married this year and we have never lost a member.. the group is growing everyday and it's getting better... we also have channels where members living in same area are in a channel and we have more plans for future.. we are going higher and upward... it's getting better daily.

Interview team: Your little words of advice or words of encouragement to all "LOVE WORLD" fans worldwide?

Guest: we have the higher ones and we have the lower ones... the higher ones don't criticise the lower ones, it is the lower ones that criticise the higher ones... don't entertain any member to talk bad about someone to you, because that same person will talk bad about you to someonelse. Let's chat together maturely and not in childish manner.. don't let people notice you have a caucus, live free, don't form a rebellion unit.. honour leaders even when you think they don't do it right in your eyes.. chat them privately and make ur mind known... remember those who watch football match always know how to play than those they watch on television... remember there is life after social media.. don't create unnecessary enemy or caucus.. live free... chat free... and love sincerely. Love you All.

Interview team: Thanks for your time.... We appreciate,  may the good Lord continue to honor and bless you more Amen!!!... Finally sir one comment for my love life and I interview team. 

Guest: My love life and I,  Interview team is doing tremendously great job...  I know the group is going to fly higher... I respect and salute the leader Shollyworld.. he's a man of vision who knows where he's going and a man of honour. You are doing a great exploit.

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